Category: Mindset
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Think “I am enough”
I keep a verbatim copy of an internet post titled “HOW TO GET LAID LIKE A WARLORD: 37 Rules of Approaching Model-Tier Girls” on my phone. Despite its click-bait title and dubious source (“The Red Pill”, the former subreddit and mixed bag of sage wisdom and misogyny), the post nonetheless contains some pearls of wisdom.…
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Reframe with door frames
If confidence is posture, as I’ve argued, you simply need to ensure you “correct” your confidence throughout the day. One way to do that is with a trigger, something that reminds you to reframe. Hear me out: door frames. Reasons: I now see door frames as checkpoints, like in a video game. Each time my…
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Abundance fixes everything
The rot at the core of most men’s problems with women is what’s commonly called a “scarcity mindset”—the distorted view that there are too few options and too little time. Heartbroken and hung up on one girl? Scarcity mindset. Feeling the sting of rejection too keenly? Scarcity mindset. Before the term “abundance mindset” became popular…
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Demolish your perfectionism
Perfectionism is a mental block that you need to smash to pieces. Seduction is not like chess—if an outcome doesn’t work in your favor you can’t simply retreat to your books and learn a better opening. It’s messier than that, and if there’s one thing we know about perfectionists it’s that they hate mess. The…
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Confidence is posture
People overcomplicate confidence. They think confident behavior is only the tip of the iceberg, and that “real” confidence comes from deep within the subconscious mind. To have “real” confidence, one must first heal their traumas and reach a state of inner perfection. Of course there’s a grain of truth to this view: what you exhibit…
Inner Game Seduction 